{"id":612,"date":"2021-11-18T22:29:16","date_gmt":"2021-11-18T22:29:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/newboppersite.048566e.netsolhost.com\/?page_id=612"},"modified":"2021-11-23T18:48:06","modified_gmt":"2021-11-23T18:48:06","slug":"tragedy","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bopper.com\/?page_id=612","title":{"rendered":"Tragedy"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Life and music are going smoothly&#8230;. and then Tragedy strikes!<\/h2>\n<p>Life is going along smoothly. \u00a0The band is rockin! \u00a0Home life is good. \u00a0 Then the early morning phone call from my sister-in-law. \u00a0January 14, 2010 my elder brother dies suddenly of a heart attack. \u00a0He was my only sibling. \u00a0Frank loved music.\u00a0While\u00a0my brother didn&#8217;t play an instrument. \u00a0With sufficient amounts of beer, he did a\u00a0pretty good Elvis. \u00a0RIP Frank.<\/p>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Thomas-R-Oliver-and-Frank-J-Oliver-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Thomas-R-Oliver-and-Frank-J-Oliver-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Thomas-R-Oliver-and-Frank-J-Oliver.jpg 452w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><figcaption>Frank and I circa 1959<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Frank-J-Oliver-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Frank-J-Oliver-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Frank-J-Oliver.jpg 453w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><figcaption>Frank H.S. Yearbook<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"255\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Frank-Oliver-255x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Frank-Oliver-255x300.jpg 255w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Frank-Oliver-768x903.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Frank-Oliver.jpg 831w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 255px) 100vw, 255px\" \/><figcaption>Frank Oliver (Oct 14, 1947 &#8211; Jan 14, 2010)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h4>More Than One &#8230;\u00a0<\/h4>\n<p><strong>September 3, 2013<\/strong>: another tragedy struck. Randy \u201cWolfman\u201d Lobeck suffered a fatal stroke. This was an extremely tough time for the band. They had lost a friend and a \u201cbrother\u201d who had performed with them for over twelve years. This time it wasn\u2019t just that someone retired or separated and could show up from time to time; this time it was permanent. Randy was a unique personality, a gifted musician with a generous spirit. Although receiving countless offers and inquiries from local sax players to replace or fill-in for Randy, the Cadillacs decided he was irreplaceable. They would return to the original \u201clean and mean\u201d five-piece instrumentation.<\/p>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Wolfman-2-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Wolfman-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Wolfman-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Wolfman-2-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Wolfman-2-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Wolfman-2.jpg 1365w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><figcaption>Randy \u201cWolfman\u201d Lobeck (5\/29\/1947 \u2013 9\/3\/2013)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h4>Must do better&#8230; or become a tragedy myself<\/h4>\n<p>At the\u00a0time of Randy&#8217;s passing, I was grossly over-weight (obese), with very high blood pressure. \u00a0My father died of a stroke. \u00a0My bother a heart attack at 62, and now one of my closest friends of a stroke (high blood pressure). \u00a0Melanie, my son, Allen, my sister-in-law Kathy, and my niece and nephews all ganged up on me. \u00a0I was now the eldest living member of my family. \u00a0They insisted I get checked out: \u00a0stress test, blood work, &#8220;the works&#8221;. \u00a0So, I complied. \u00a0When\u00a0it was all done, the cardiologist told me that everything was good except being 100 lb. overweight; nothing wrong with me that getting into shape\u00a0wouldn&#8217;t\u00a0fix. \u00a0I decided to take the advice. \u00a0I stopped by a local personal\/group training gym, Club Performax. \u00a0I discussed the situation with the owner, Rod\u00a0Stewart (what a coincidence that was?). One small problem: the membership was very expensive. \u00a0I stated as much. \u00a0He replied: \u00a0&#8220;Well, what&#8217;s your health worth?&#8221; \u00a0So, with a lot of encouragement from my family and especially bandmate, Mike Parker, I got to work to get into shape. \u00a0A very special thank you to my personal trainer, Chris Streiff. \u00a0Thanks to he and Rod, I went from not\u00a0being able to row 200m on a machine to completing the 10K, 25 obstacle Savage Race.<\/p>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"880\" height=\"627\" src=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Tom-Transformation-1024x730.jpg\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Tom-Transformation-1024x730.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Tom-Transformation-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Tom-Transformation-768x547.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Tom-Transformation.jpg 1266w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 880px) 100vw, 880px\" \/><figcaption>315 lb. to 208 lb<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/IMG_1399-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/IMG_1399-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/IMG_1399-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/IMG_1399-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/IMG_1399-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/IMG_1399-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><figcaption>Savage Race 2014 (age 62): 3rd Place Bronze Medal for age 60-65<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Mike-Tom-Savage-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Mike-Tom-Savage-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/bopper.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Mike-Tom-Savage.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><figcaption>2016 Savage Race: Mike Parker (age 66) joins me to finish again at age 64.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><i>**Note: \u00a0Mike (Keyboards) and I not only ran the Savage in the morning, but went on to perform at Spanish Springs from 5-9 pm. Could have been just a bit crazy \ud83d\ude42<\/i><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/bopper.com\/?page_id=651\" role=\"button\"><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\tClick here  to continue<br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Life and music are going smoothly&#8230;. and then Tragedy strikes! 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